This is an older story, but it's still applicable:
Me [on the phone with a friend who is coming in from the other side of the country to be at our wedding]: Well I have rehearsal until around 4:00 and the bus doesn't come until 4:45 sooo...if you wanted to pick me up...
Friend: Sure, we can make that happen.
[conversation ends. I'm in the car with Jay, by the way]
Jay [feigning hurt]: I could have picked you up.
Me: Did you want to? I can tell him he doesn't need to. I can do it right now.
Jay [continuing to feign hurt, really obviously]: Oh no! No don't worry about it! It's fine. I guess you just don't want to see me! [or something to that effect]
Me:...you know...sometimes when you are pretending to be mad, I think you really are mad and you're just pretending to pretend to be mad.
Jay:..........what?
Me: [repeats phrase...several times]
Jay:....You THINK too much!
And I do. That's part of my problem. I operate on that level of social scrutiny (paranoia maybe?) 24/7. It's exhausting and I would just LOVE to stop...but it's harder than it sounds.
I over think social situations quite a bit as well, Lisa points this out on a weekly basis. I like to think I'm getting better at ignoring things I would normally over analyze though.
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